What to do when your child gets angry

Small children aged 2 to 4 cannot control themselves and say how they feel. When they want something or when they don’t know how to do something, they can get very angry. This is called a temper tantrum.  Temper tantrums can get very bad if your child is tired, hungry or thirsty. You may see crying, screaming, kicking and even falling down. This is normal and happens to all children. There are things to do to help your child have less tantrums.

• Have a routine every day – do the same things at the same time. It’s important children eat, sleep and nap at the same time each day.
• If you are taking your child with you somewhere where they will have to wait in a line, bring small toys and a drink or some food.
• Teach your child words to express what he or she feels. These words can be “hurt”, “tired” or “I want”.
• Let your child make small decision like what to wear. This will make him or her feel in control.
• Show your child something funny or point out something in the street, when he or she gets angry. 
• Do not become angry and start to shout at your child.